The past weeks made me hit rock bottom. But as the old adage goes, “Life is always rocky when you’re a gem.”
As I was contemplating and re-evaluating all that I’ve been through, I realized that all those struggles I was trying to avoid were actually the biggest plot twists and life lessons I needed in this universe!
…and here’s my two cents:
1. Getting out of your comfort zone – Give yourself a break. You don’t need to dig deeper and search for a reason why. The urge you are feeling is already the reason. So park all your inhibitions and make a move.
2. You will fail, and it’s okay – I encountered failures, struggles and pain – it’s a cycle, they’re inevitable and somewhere along the way, you will need it. So just feel it. Accept it. Learn from it.
3. Surrounding yourself with good people – I’d like to say “the right people”, but I still have to learn how to get to know the right ones. Well, coming from someone who’s so afraid to interact with other hoomans and just used to being with a few, this is a tough one. But really, this is a must. People you choose to be with should uplift you, insipire you and motivate you.
4. Be the better person – Always always always choose kindness. Try to forgive people who hurt you or broke you. Reach out to others in need, give back, engage in activities where you can radiate positivity. Share your thoughts, skills, your knowledge. It’s the best feeling ever!
5. Self love – For the longest time, I made myself believe that the love and appreciation you need would just be handed over to you like a pizza delivery. But no. The love you need comes from you, and you owe yourself that. So embrace your flaws, imperfections, acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses, conquer your fears, and never stop setting goals. Remember, self love is not selfish. ♥️
So… should get back to work. Have a happy long weekend y’all!